A Refugee’s Journey: From Afghanistan to America
The Long Journey
In the serene suburb of Irmo, South Carolina, Mohammad Sharafoddin, his wife Nuriya, and their young son reflect on a harrowing journey that began less than a decade ago. Leaving Afghanistan, they navigated through mountainous terrains, enduring grueling walks of up to 36 hours, all in search of safety and a better life. The resilience displayed during this challenging trek ultimately led them to their cozy three-bedroom home in the United States.
Dreams Deferred
Like many Afghan refugees who fled their homeland, the Sharafoddins harbored hopes for a brighter future—not just for themselves but for their extended family as well. They dreamt of bringing Nuriya’s niece to the U.S. to pursue her education, to perhaps even become a doctor. However, those aspirations came crashing down when the U.S. announced a travel ban affecting Afghanistan and eleven other countries.
The Impact of the Travel Ban
The travel ban, instated by President Donald Trump, was reminiscent of a previous one from his first term but extended to include more nations. Along with Afghanistan, it encompassed countries such as Myanmar, Libya, and Haiti. Trump justified the ban by highlighting security concerns, claiming that the selected nations lacked adequate screening processes and had high rates of visa overstays.
While there are exceptions for Afghans who worked closely with the U.S. military during the war, the Sharafoddins find themselves among those whose family connections are abruptly severed. Mohammad said, “It’s kind of a shock for us when we hear about Afghanistan, especially right now for ladies who are affected more than others with the new government.”
A Glimpse into Their New Life
Since resettling in Irmo, the Sharafoddins have tired but content smiles as they celebrate family milestones. Mohammad found work at a local jewelry maker, providing for his family and establishing a modest yet fulfilling life. Their 11-year-old son thrives in school, and they welcomed a daughter, now three, into their family.
Nuriya is embracing her new life with enthusiasm: “I’m very happy to be here now, because my son is very good at school and my daughter also. I believe they will have opportunities I only dreamed of.”
The Hopes for Their Niece
Yet, happiness is bittersweet. Mohammad and Nuriya have not given up on the hope of bringing Nuriya’s niece to the U.S., especially after the Taliban’s return to power in 2021 curtailed her educational opportunities. They often reminisce and share drawings and paintings of her, brimming with talent and potential. However, the announcement of the travel ban left Nuriya grappling with how to break the news to her niece. “I’m not ready to call her. This is not good news. This is very sad news because she is worried and wants to come,” she shared.
Community Support in Columbia
In their new life, the Sharafoddins have found allies in local community members like Jim Ray, who has helped various refugee families settle in Columbia. He notes how the travel ban complicates familial ties, creating further isolation for those whose extended family members face dire situations back in Afghanistan. “This kind of thing that they’re experiencing where family cannot be reunited is actually where it hurts the most,” Ray points out.
Government Criticism and Ongoing Struggles
The Taliban have reacted strongly to the travel ban, criticizing the U.S. for what they view as an oppressive measure against citizens of the affected countries. Their leader called it a betrayal of friendship, questioning why innocent people are barred from the very nation they see as a beacon of hope.
Across all these narratives, the plight of families like the Sharafoddins highlights the intricate layers of migration, hope, and the unforeseen barriers that continue to shape the realities for millions around the globe. While some paths to safety may close, their story reminds us of the unwavering strength of the human spirit in the face of adversity.
